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Postby mom2two » Tue Jan 12, 2010 12:53 am

My IS is suffering from a neurodegenerative disorder and has been declining for over three years now. I visit boards often to gain insight but this is my first post. Hello from KC!
IS, 47, in assisted care. Has an unknown neurodegenerative disorder, is paraplegic and has cognitive problems.
WS, 44, now separated. Works full-time, finishing grad school, raising two teenagers and making an attempt to find her way in a new life.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby claudia » Tue Jan 12, 2010 4:04 am

Welcome to our special community, mom2two! I am glad you found us.
I joined WS just about one year ago. At the beginning I browsed finding quite a bit of help just by reading the posts of others. However, since I began actively participating I feel like I am encircled by remarkable, caring friends and it makes an enormous difference in how I am able to face the challenges of being a WS. I hope to see you often, everybody cares and understands.
A welcoming hug,
Claudia
WS 70,IS 74, PPMS 25+ years.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby Dorothy Saunders » Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:06 am

Welcome, Mom2two!
You've got a lot on your plate; I think chatting with us will be helpful to you.
We're here for you.
Caregiver for 30+ years to C-4 quadriplegic shot during a robbery at age 21. He practices law full time; we have two 20-something sons.
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Postby capierce » Tue Jan 12, 2010 9:50 am

Welcome! You will find so much understanding, encouragement and information here. It seems that everyone listens when we rant and shares in small accomplishments. Its a great place.
South AR FWS/IS passed in his sleep May 4, 2011
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby LarryB » Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:16 pm

Glad you found our safe and supportive "family". I know you'll get lots of info and support here.
Be thankful the thornbushes have roses!

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Re: New here...hello!

Postby anshlaeyn » Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:18 pm

Welcome, welcome. Sorry you need us, but happy to have you! This place is a lifesaver, a huge sigh of relief.
35,CG 7 yrs/WS 4 yr/full time job. IS-41,born w/S.B.(Meningomylocele),hydrocephalus,paraplegic,RA,scoliosis,urostomy. Trying to keep myself together without turning into granite to accomplish it.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby kitty » Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:25 pm

Welcome mom2two!
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby jumpinjan » Tue Jan 12, 2010 7:05 pm

Welcome!

I'm so sorry you need to join us but I'm glad you found us....

Stick around and visit for a spell....


(((((Mom2Two)))))

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Re: New here...hello!

Postby qtrhrsemom » Tue Jan 12, 2010 7:08 pm

Hi Mom2Two!! Welcome to the family!! Hope to hear from you often!
WS (59) to IS (67) Separated. Parapelegic from injuries suffered in Viet Nam in 1967. PTSD, Chronic pain... too many surgeries to mention.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby Katt » Tue Jan 12, 2010 8:21 pm

Mom2Two,

Welcome to WSA. I can only hope that you find the support and friendship that I have found here.

You certainly have your hands full, but don't forget to take the time for YOU.

Again welcome and come often and stay late.

Kat
Married for 42 years. Caregiver for 13 yrs. IS died of COPD Feb. 10, 2011. Combat related disabled veteran.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby mom2two » Wed Jan 13, 2010 1:43 am

Thanks for the welcome. It has been a rough three years, going from one diagnosis to another, and now to "unknown" again. It has been so frustrating just on the medical front constantly fighting for IS's needs. In the meantime, our whole family life has changed -- we've had to move, file bankruptcy, along with a host of other problems. Just the paperwork alone is mind-boggling. It's amazing, actually, that I have any sanity left.

But, I think the hardest part of all this is watching IS struggle. He was such a hard-working, intelligent professional that is now needing a lot of assistance and is beginning to have memory/cognitive issues. It is breaking my heart. I tried to have hope for so long that this could be fixed but I need to face reality -- whatever he has, it is not going away.

Even with all the day-to-day difficulty of caring for my IS, I still try to focus on blessings -- my family is still together, we are recovering financially, we have the support of an amazing church family and good friends in our community. There's a lot to be thankful for.

I'll just take it one day at a time...
IS, 47, in assisted care. Has an unknown neurodegenerative disorder, is paraplegic and has cognitive problems.
WS, 44, now separated. Works full-time, finishing grad school, raising two teenagers and making an attempt to find her way in a new life.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby LaLuLu » Wed Jan 13, 2010 8:56 am

(((Mom2Two)))

Welcome to the forum. You've been through so very much over the past three years...I hope the support and companionship so generously offered here will help brighten the weeks and months ahead.

LaLuLu
FWS, 53. IS died on Jan. 13, 2010, at 54, from end stage liver disease. Blogging about my journey at http://fullcircletolove.com.
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Re: New here...hello!

Postby frogwife » Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:05 am

Welcome! You find many caring, compassionate people to help support you on this journey!
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FWS 44 yrs, FIS 57 yrs Dx w/ Dermatomyositis 4/09, severe Dysphagia and feeding tube 5/09, SVT & cardiac ablation 5/09, pnuematosis 9/09 and passed away 11/9/09, 92 yr old FIL in assisted living nearby, Shadow Kitty, & Taffy Bird
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