Hi,
I am the spouse of an injured worker. My husband was injured in a construction workplace accident almost 5 years ago. He badly injured his back. Since that time he also suffered a truck accident and now walks with a cane. There are days when he can barely move, and is on opiate meds, anti depressants etc etc etc.
The last 5 years have been a nightmare dealing with doctors, and WSIB etc etc.
I work full time, and have a 5 year old daughter, and also now have the added responsibility of all the physical work around the home.
I find myself STRESSED to the max, and no one seems to understand how hard this is on me too. Everyone always asks how my husband is doing. Never me.
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WS-Age 41 IS-Age 44 suffering from Chronic back pain, repetitive strain injury in neck. Original accident Sept 2005 at workplace, MVA-- September 2008.
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Welcome, AnitaB. This is the place where you are asked, "How are YOU doing?"
I hope hanging out here will help you to cope better. We get it. Caregiver for 30+ years to C-4 quadriplegic shot during a robbery at age 21. He practices law full time; we have two 20-something sons.
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Welcome AnitaB! I'm so glad you've found our little family. Here, we're all about how to help you! So, please stop by often!!
Hugs... ((((((((AnitaB)))))))) WS (59) to IS (67) Separated. Parapelegic from injuries suffered in Viet Nam in 1967. PTSD, Chronic pain... too many surgeries to mention.
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Anita,
WE UNDERSTAND. Read and write, you are among peers here. (((())))
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Yes Anita.....we do care. Welcome to the place just for you!
IS 51, WS 46, Full time caregiver since 1999, Progressive MS.
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Welcome, Anita...
Sorry you need to be here, but so glad you found this lovely spot on the web. The support and camaraderie...well it's just pretty amazing. Hope you find as much comfort here as I have... LaLuLu FWS, 53. IS died on Jan. 13, 2010, at 54, from end stage liver disease. Blogging about my journey at http://fullcircletolove.com.
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Welcome Anita - stress!!!! oh yes we understand. Glad you have joined us.
Be thankful the thornbushes have roses!
Deb and Larry 4-16-67 1-22-13 President Well Spouse Association - BECOME A SUPPORTING MEMBER so that we can serve others in need
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Anita,
Welcome! I'm so sorry you need to be here... But I hope you find this place the same haven I have found it to be... A place where everyone "gets it" like no one else.... Jan
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Welcome AnitaB!
I joined in here about a month ago and the folks here are incredibly supportive and understanding. Everyone may have a different journey but we all seem to be challenged with the same issues. There's nothing quite like having friends that understand and you will find them here. If you haven't already, try to read thru the old posts - you'll find some good advice and humor as well! IS-62 WS-59 Married 40 yrs; IS is 100% combat disabled Vietnam veteran, chronic pain for 35+ yrs., artificial hipx4, morphine pump, Agent Orange, PTSD; mobility & health declining, pain & depression increasing, recently shattered femur 5/2011
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Welcome AnitaB, i see we are the same age. Your daughter is younger than our youngest, but we still have alot in common. Working fulltime, children, ages, managing household and IS!! It is extremely demanding.
I have gotten so much encouragement, understanding and lots of helpful information . . . i know you will find the same here. South AR FWS/IS passed in his sleep May 4, 2011
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Thanks! When I read your story I also noticed quite a few similarities. It is very challenging some days. I have been looking for so long for a place like this and was about to give up. It almost seems as if karma was with me. Anita WS-Age 41 IS-Age 44 suffering from Chronic back pain, repetitive strain injury in neck. Original accident Sept 2005 at workplace, MVA-- September 2008.
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Aloha, AnitaB. I think the others have said it all, but just wanted to add my own welcome. I know what it's like to take care of a house all by yourself, and to feel you are living in a nightmare. I like your idea that karma was responsible for your finding us. I feel the same way for myself.
FWS. In memory of John, an adventurer whose passions included wooden sailboats, animals, anything green, and music -- especially Rhapsody in Blue. Rest in peace, December 31, 2009.
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P.S. Not everybody on the forum reads the Testing One Two Three section. I suggest you copy/paste and resend your introduction to one of the other sections, such as Help and Healing so more will read it.
FWS. In memory of John, an adventurer whose passions included wooden sailboats, animals, anything green, and music -- especially Rhapsody in Blue. Rest in peace, December 31, 2009.
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